Saturday, May 9, 2015

Achia Update







Many of you have been praying for Achia, so I wanted to give you an update.  We have joy and sorrow with Achia and her family. We continue to help with food and other needs each week.  This is one of the first families here that truly has nothing.  We wrestle with how to give without fear, yet without creating a mess.  Karlie, our teacher, has a heart for the disabled and has fallen in love with Achia.  Karlie goes almost every day to visit Achia.  She holds her, works with her muscles, and interacts with the family.  She always comes home ready to bath after Achia hugs on her with all her dirt, drool, and whatever she may have eaten when she was there.  But Achia is irresistible when she reaches out to you longing to be held. 

We are excited that Achia has gained weight and can even crawl and walk a few steps when you hold her hands!  I will never stop being amazed by what love and food can do.  We are thankful to see her usually bathed and the family holding her more and even showing love by interacting at times.

We see a new hope on the mother’s face.  The family seems to be grateful.  They even gave a chicken as a gift – a way to thank us even in their poverty!  They have come to church several Sundays.  Both Dad and Mom carry all three little ones.  I am excited each time they come knowing they are hearing from God and our church can get to know them too.  Since Karlie, our girls, or someone from our family visits almost everyday, many of our neighbors and church friends ask about it or have even come along.  Charles and Josh shared Jesus the other day with Achia’s Dad Opio.  He said they once believed but backslid.  They encouraged him to come back to Jesus.  Pray with us that they do – soon! 

We still grieve and wrestle with the hard stuff.  Achia still lays in the dirt, alone, too much.  Her guts don’t seem to be right and she is often very gasy and uncomfortable.  The other day Karlie came home in tears realizing the dysfunction in the family and how Achia suffers because of it.  The mother was gone for days, we are told they drink sometimes, fighting, poverty…the result is always the innocent suffer.  It is painful to see.  Who will rescue and care for Achia who can do nothing for herself?  Hard, hard stuff to deal with.

Last week we took Pastor Charles, Achia, and Opio (her father) to the eye hospital (3 hours away) we were recommended to take her to.  Our family had to go on to Kampala for a meeting, but Charles stayed with Opio and Achia for four days at the hospital.  They put Achia out to examine her eyes and did other tests.  It seems her brain does not receive the signal from the eyes and she is blind.  This was most likely caused from the cerebral malaria.  They do want the parents to do exercises with Achia with a light to see if they can get the brain to work with the eyes again.  We were thankful Charles took the time with Opio to teach them how to love Achia better.  Even the doctors and nurses encouraged Opio to hold her more.  Charles also went further with Opio spiritually knowing Achia’s abandonment is a spiritual stronghold in the family.


So please continue to pray!  I want to take Achia next week to a good doctor in town to get a good exam and tests done to know more about Achia’s health.  I want to know if there is more we can do.  Pray for Achia’s parents to come to Christ and be freed from the bondage they are in.  Pray as they know Jesus love they learn to love Achia better.  Pray for Achia to know her Heavenly Father’s love and comfort and healing.  We all love Achia, but it is hard to know what to do, it is tiring, discouraging yet worth it.  We know God is the answer.  His love, His power, His plan,,,for His glory.  

Sunday, May 3, 2015

Lost & Found Love

Here I go again being honest.  Actually, this one was hard for me because it isn't pretty and shows I have a long ways to go.  But I want to write it knowing it is probably not just true of me but others too.  After all we are all human - trying to be like Christ.
Yesterday I listened to a sermon from our pastor in America on Love - The More Excellent Way 1 Cor. 13.  It hit me hard and I was convicted to the core.  I lost my love.
From as far back as I can remember people talked about how loving I was -- lovable, loved people, loved the Lord.  I did.  I loved to love others.  It seemed to come naturally.  Now I see the last years stole my love.  I put up guards and stopped loving because of the pain we went through. 
I did love - I gave of myself, my time, money, I was caring, did to others as I would want done to me, I trusted, was helpful and kind...  Just in the last few years focused on and prayed about being selfless.  It was so hard - why - because I felt stepped on, unappreciated, misunderstood, drained, lonely, and hurt. Even though I knew it was lies, it hurt.  And I pulled away.  My love was squashed.  I was empty and became more empty not doing my tendency - to love.  I have became resentful, needy, and wanted others to miss me and my love.  I have let relationships go and look for ones that fill and encourage me.  I get hurt and upset easily.  Not loving wasn't working and hurting me, but I am also wounded and too weary to give.  
So like I have learned with forgiveness - we do it because God commanded us to, it isn't fair but it's right and God's way - I have to love.  Love is not a feeling, love is a choice.  Choosing to think and act out of love.  God loved me so I am to love others.  It is command He gave us.  He loves unconditionally so I have to love those who don't deserve it.  God selflessly gave - gave himself - out of love of us.  And it is by love that others will know I am the Lords.
I need to love - when others don't deserve it, when I don't feel like it, when I get hurt, when I get nothing back.  That is hard!  Honestly, I can't do it.  So it has to be God.  God in me - love in me.  His love allows me to be His love to others. 
Without love any faith, knowledge, gifts, giving...are useless.
Lord, forgive me for letting love go.  Help me love again.  I need You.  Change my heart and mind.  Fill me with love that is patient, kind, doesn't envy, boast, not proud, or rude, is not self seeking, or easily angered, keeps no record of wrongs, does not delight in evil and rejoices in truth, it protects, trusts, hopes and perseveres...it never fails. 
Pray for me as I love from God's love once again. 

Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Praising God with Pictures!

Just had to praise God - He is awesome!

He is Creative!
He is worthy of Praise!

He loves us!

He is BIG!

He is beyond our thinking!
He is everywhere!

He is to be feared!

He has created all things (see the baby crocs!)
He is good!

He is delights in us!

He is our great, big, powerful, beautiful God!

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

He Cannot Lie

Hebrews 6:18 It is impossible for God to lie.

Think about it.  God cannot lie.  He is truth.  Everything He has said is true.  His Word and everything He has said about me is truth.  His promises are true.  What He has commanded is truth. 

Do you believe Him?

If we say we believe yet doubt who we are, we are calling God a liar.  God said we are His beloved children, Holy, Saints, forgiven and free in Christ…but when we live defeated – we are not believing God. 

Jesus said it is finished on the cross and He has defeated satan – victory!  We are in Christ and have the same power and victory.  True?

God tells us He is in control – in all, over all, above all – yet we worry and try on our own.  Are we calling God a liar? 

God promises to provide for us, protect us, and be with us.  But we fear and avoid any kind of pain or hardships.  Can’t we trust God?

The Bible tells us that joy and peace are found in Jesus and yet we trust in money and things for happiness.  We have called God a liar.

God has told us His desire for marriage, the call of a husband to love selflessly, and the role of a wife to respect her husband.  But we have chosen not to believe God’s plan and have believed the world’s lies.  We have chosen suffering instead of blessings.

God commanded us to forgive then He will forgive us.  Are we obeying?

Jesus told us to love others above ourselves, to be last, selfless, deny ourselves and follow Him.  But our world tells us an opposite message.  Who will we believe and follow?

As God’s chosen people we are called to go and share the good news with all nations.  Have we, are we?  Or is God a liar?

Jesus says He is coming back to judge and to take us home.  Are we getting ready?

God cannot lie.

So, do you believe Him?  He has told us truth in His Word.  We have a choice to trust Him or call Him a liar.

May we choose to believe God and all He said is true.  If we do we will be changed, empowered, find peace, joy, assurance, strength, freedom…because His Word is life! 

Let God speak truth to you today…and may you live in obedience that comes from believing.

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Another Very Special Visit...

My sister Jenna and four of her children; Alex, Grant, Abby & Anna came to visit us!

My girls were more than excited to have their cousins here!


Luka thought it was great to have boy cousins around since he doesn't have a brother 

It was great to share our normal life with them

The boys loves Piki Piki rides


Mango season
Showing them Obulle center - our "Walmart" :) 

Meeting neighbors

Visiting the school at our church




Learning about life in the village

Visiting Achia

They fell in love with her too


Achia loves to touch to get to know you



One of their highlights was visiting the blind school.  It is a special place that we appreciate.
Lydia learned to type her name in brail.

This little girls stole our hearts with her smile
Our local Thursday market

Obulle Clinic - the pharmacy

The Ward

Baby scale
A meal at our friends house

Alex liked Posho and all the kids did great trying everything,

It was so cool, the kids started to dance in their local dance.  After watching for a while our kids joined in!





New Friends - kids are still kids everywhere and can connect even without common language.

It is impossible to share with you what we were able to share with our family on their visit.  It is always special.  I was so proud of the kids.  They were totally comfortable here.  They tried everything and went everywhere.  They met lots of people, played with kids, and made new friends.  They enjoyed Uganda!  It is so neat to see them feel at home here because it is their cousins home.  For years they have heard about it, prayed for us, and shared from afar.  Now they were able to be apart of it.  I loved having them here.  At the end the kids expressed how thankful and blessed they are.  How they see people here are so happy with so little and people in America have so much and aren't happy.  Conclusion; things don't bring happiness.  There is once again a hole in our hearts as they have gone back to their home.  Grace misses them terribly every time she does something they did together.  Luka cries when he talks about them.  I am thankful God gave us this time together,  I enjoyed listening to them, sharing with them, and praying for them,  And real, live hugs!  
Thanks for coming Hekmans!  Can't wait till next time.  May God continue to remind you what He showed you.

Saturday, April 4, 2015

Celebrating our Savior!

Celebrating the victory we have in Christ!  
Our kids have so much joy.  I am thankful to dance in worship to our Lord with my girls.  
He has risen!