April
7, 2013
I
am pleased to say we are doing quite well. Thank you for each prayer
you prayed for us. Don’t stop!
God is so faithful and good. I know ups and downs will continue but
the hope I find in the Lord gives me peace and great joy.
We
just returned home from our teammates wedding. What an adventure.
Let me help you get the “American wedding” out of your head. We
left Friday morning to go to Mbale which takes over two hours to
drive to because of the bad roads. They are working on the roads but
there are so many pot holes in areas that at one point Grace and Luka
shouted from the back seat, “Dad, get off this bumpy road!” at
the top of their lungs. Lydia can’t even sit in the back because
she gets so car sick. Anyways, it makes us all very happy when we
get there. (By the way I saw the pot hole on Baldwin St. in MI after
the winter, take that, make some of them a few feet deeper and then
drive on it for an hour or so weaving in and out and you may get the
idea of our Mbale Road.)
We
stayed at a hotel in Mbale with a couple other teammates. After
swimming with us Josh drove another hour up the mountain to where the
wedding was. He preached at the wedding and went for rehearsal. The
wedding was at Sisyi Falls, a beautiful waterfall and place where our
team has often camped, we chose not to stay the night there because
there were so many others staying there, it is really muddy this time
of year and I didn’t want to tent with a baby. The rehearsal never
happened – long story – so Josh came back and joined us for
supper. The kids and I enjoyed our afternoon by the pool. We were
even blessed with a huge, beautiful double rainbow over the mountain.
Only God!!! I love seeing Him!
Saturday
we got ready and drove to the wedding. It is so fun to get dressed
up and have somewhere to go (at least I enjoy it). Luka even wore
his tie and vest. What a little man. The girls both wore skirts
made with Ugandan material because they did a dance in the wedding
with the rest of the girls on the team. Knowing our teammate Beckie
was marrying a Ugandan and having a somewhat Ugandan wedding, we knew
things wouldn’t be on time and may be even some what looks like
chaos. We arrived at 10am so the girls could practice their dance.
People were told the wedding would start at 11am hoping it would
start at noon. It ended up starting at 1:30pm I believe. We just
sat back and enjoyed the day and tried to be as helpful as we could.
After all of a half an hour, Luka found his cousin Moses and they
started playing boats in the stream with seed pods. So off went the
shirt and tie until the wedding began. It was hard for anyone to
stay clean with all the mud around. Angie, my sister, was the maid
of honor so I sat with her as she got her hair done and prayed with
Beckie before she got ready. What a big, exciting day. I love
weddings! It was fun to be with our whole team and be apart of this
together.
Once
the bus came from Soroti with many of their friends and family the
wedding party finished getting ready and the wedding began. The
church was full and hot. Emalai of course filled her pants and I had
to change her on my lap (my nice dress!) while sitting on a bench
surrounded by about 250 people. I was a little unhappy with the day
at this point. Then she wanted to eat but was too hot and mad to be
under the blanket to nurse. So she cried. I tried walking but there
was NO room in the church and it was hot and sunny outside. Finally
she gave in and fell asleep for the rest of the wedding. What a good
girl. When I sat back down Luka was lying on the bench sleeping too.
He missed the whole wedding.
Beckie
came in the first time in sac clothes as Josh preached from Ezekiel
about being before the Lord in filthy rags and Christ giving us clean
clothes. Then Ruudy, Beckies groom, gave her her wedding dress and
she went out and changed. Josh continued to preach and gave a
salvation message knowing there were people of other religions
present. It was a hard one to preach because the whole wedding was
so loud and had many distractions. But people heard the gospel and I
know God did what He desired. The girls did a wonderful job dancing.
I loved seeing my girls up there with big smiles. I was proud of
them. Beckie looked beautiful! I have never seen her all done up.
Her dress was made here with a pretty off white Ugandan material.
And Ruddy had what I consider a Nigerian outfit. They looked great.
There was lots of “Ugandan shouting” for the couple. It was fun.
The not so fun part was the paparazzi. So many people stood up and
went in front by Beckie and Ruudy or even behind the pastor to get
photos. Our teammate was the photographer for the wedding and about
had it trying to get good pictures with everyone mobbing the scene.
I felt bad for the bridesmaids being crowded out up there too.
About
half way through the wedding it began to rain – wait not rain,
pour! We were all stuck in the church. Even the Bride and Groom
walked down the aisle and turned around and walked back up front
because there was no where to go. For awhile we just kept singing
and celebrating. It was still raining so they took the wedding
pictures up front. Finally, the rain let up and we all walked up the
hill to the reception. I just had to laugh because my first step out
of the church into the grass my foot, including my nice shoes for the
wedding, sunk into mud. There was no hope. My feet were muddy and
my legs were speckled with mud. There was no way out of it. Water
and mud were everywhere. At least we all looked muddy – not true
you couldn’t see the mud on the Ugandan like you could on my white
legs. Luka and a few others then got bite my ants coming out of the
ground because of the rain. Are we having fun? There were three
tents up for people to sit under for the reception and it was a good
thing because the rain wasn’t finished. Just as people walked from
their tent to get in the food line, it poured again but this time it
didn’t stop. It was cold, everyone and everything was getting wet,
and Malai wanted to be fed while I tried to eat. I didn’t know
weather to laugh or cry at the situation. I felt really bad for
Beckie and Ruudy. Really there was no reception because of the rain.
But the good thing is they are married.
Josh
packed up our van with their wedding presents in the rain, while
Lydia helped escort people to get food with an umbrella, and Luka
danced in the rain with his friends. I had to smile. What a day.
We were going to drive back to Soroti but because of all the rain we
went back to Mbale for the night. The roads were slippery and the
pot holes full of water so you didn’t know how deep they were. I
was thankful for a warm, dry place to stay. Lydia talked the whole
ride back about the wedding and how much she likes weddings. She
said it makes her think about her wedding someday. She is just like
her mom. Actually, during the wedding I said to Josh do you think
Beckie’s Mom ever thought her daughter would have a wedding like
this? Then I said maybe we would have a Mongolian wedding someday.
Weddings make me all emotional. (I know not a surprise.) I was
surprised how much this wedding made me feel. I was so happy for
them, excited to be apart of it, sad for how the rain messed things
up, laughed at the memories it made, thankful for my husband and our
marriage, blessed by our team, touched by God’s gift of marriage…
Congratulations Ruudy and Beckie! Thanks for letting us be apart of
your special day!
We
have been rejoicing in the transformation we have been seeing in the
people in Obulle. They may seem small and we could easily overlook
them, but if you know the culture here these transformations are a
change of the heart that only God can do. And so they are worth
praising God for! One Sunday our pastor introduced his wife and told
our visitors they have 8 children. He noted that one child is not
born yet but they know it is a child. He said in their culture they
don’t talk about an unborn child – at all, no recognition for
fear of something happening to the baby. And they don’t
necessarily see it as life either. For our pastor to see this
pregnancy as a baby and number it with his children is a great thing.
He learned from God’s Word that He created every life and loves
each child, so he changed his thinking. Then recently we asked our
church leaders to pray with us about an orphan boy who does not want
to live on the streets and needs a home. All five of the leaders
came back willing to take the boy and not just as a servant which
most Ugandans do but as a son. Wow. That is transformation of the
heart and mind. Praise God for the work He is doing! One of our
church leaders recently had conflict with his wife. After repenting
before the Lord and forgiving, he gathered his children and wife and
apologized for not being a good husband and father lately. Now that
is transformation we all need. He is practicing what the Word of God
tells us to do. I am so thankful God is allowing us to see Him at
work in the lives of our friends in Obulle.
It
was also Josh’s 35th
birthday this weekend! Lydia baked him chocolate chip cookies and we
all made him cards. We sure do love him!!!
I
forgot to tell you a couple “we live in Africa” moments since we
returned. Four days after we arrived in country I went to wash my
hands in our bathroom at our team retreat and a frog jumps out of the
facet at me! I of course screamed. Our kids wouldn’t use our
bathroom until we found and removed the frog. (Can you tell we have
girls?) Then the first week back in Soroti our watchman killed three
snakes by our fence one morning. Three! I was comforted that they
were all a harmless gardener snake, but it is still a yucky snake.
Luka and Grace were totally intrigued and checked out each dead
snake. Lydia was freaked out and worried. Keeps us praying!
It
has been difficult for me to find precious time with the Lord since
Malai was born and we have moved. I love my time with God and know
without Him I can quickly become a mess. I need Him! I have been
clinging to Him all day long; talking with Him throughout the day,
say prayers as I go about my day, and praising Him for His many good
gifts. But when I have been able to sit with His Word I have been so
filled. I just finished reading through the Bible again and wondered
if I should start over at Genesis right away or do a Bible study or
what. I decided to begin again in Genesis. It is amazing how
something you know and have read so many times can still speak to
you. God’s Word is truly alive. He is the beginning. He is the
Creator of all. His creativity is amazing! He spoke and it was.
All creation obeyed. He set all things in its place – every star!
Everything has its place, purpose and reason because God said so. He
made all things good. No matter what the world says. God said we
are very good. Made in His very image! We are like the King or
Kings, God of all, Holy, Loving, merciful, just, relational…wow!
Then our Father lovingly gave us marriage. And gave us every plants
and animals to care for, eat, and even enjoy. His blessing for every
living thing was to multiply. It is a blessing from the Lord. After
all that, God Almighty rested. That makes the Sabbath holy and
blessed. A gift from God to us. (Genesis 1-2)
Then
reading Genesis 3 I realized God is the creator of even satan. Then
His beloved creation became His greatest enemy. How sad. That is
when God pointed out that we too are His creation, His beloved
children, and we too became His enemy. Our sin causes our Father
great pain and sadness. And yet, while we were His enemy He died to
save us. What love! Temptation is satan’s invitation to sin.
May we stop believing the lie that sin looks good, is pleasing, and
will make us wiser/better.
You
can be praying for my parents, great aunt, and a friend who arrive
this Saturday. We are excited to have them! My Dad hasn’t been in
Uganda since our first year (2007) and my Mom hasn’t since she came
to get the girls when Luka was sick. I am looking forward to showing
them our home and ministry in Obulle. So much has changed since our
beginning. Pray for safe travels and good health for everyone.
(I will add more pics soon)
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